|A trip to Chinatown will reveal
that the difference between Eastern and Western cultures is quite stark.
Taking a course in culture might delve into the differences, but while
Eastern Studies 101 focuses on religion and politics, Asian dating presents
a cultural challenge that is totally unique to the Western girl. Asian
Sugar Daddies like those found on MutualArrangments.com hold different
expectations for their Sugar Babies based on the cultural norms of respect
The most superficial difference between Western and Eastern Sugar
Daddies is the way Sugar Babies must present themselves in public. Cultural
norms dictate that Asian men are not typically allowed to touch a girl
they are not married to in public. A Sugar Baby who is used to being on
the arm of her companion may find this difference off-putting if not upsetting
if she doesn’t understand the underlying cultural norms. Also, in Asian
cultures, women are typically an accessory to men – especially to those
who hold positions of power. A girl accompanying her Sugar
Daddy will thus be expected to remain quiet and subdued when at important
business dinners. Additionally, Eastern men and their families customarily
scrutinize their girlfriend’s appearances and suitability. A Sugar Baby
must be prepared for the pressure of being perfect.
The Eastern relationship is based on honor and respect of patriarchy.
In Asian cultures, men are revered as protectors and providers, and they
expect their female counterparts to uphold the tradition of reverence.
Sugar Babies must be prepared to let their Asian
Sugar Daddies guide them in making decisions and also readily defer
to their Sugar Daddies in all important matters. While age is not necessarily
a factor in making a man more highly respectable in Asian culture, a more
mature man is a sign of security for women – especially in Thailand and
the Philippines. There is not as much of a taboo about older men dating
younger women in Asian culture as there is in Western culture.
In matters of sex, female reservation and resignation are prized
among Asian Sugar Daddies. Relationships move slower in Oriental countries
than they do in the Western world. If a girl pushes a relationship too
fast by bringing it right to the bedroom, the man will surely back out
of the arrangement. In fact, most sexual relations between Asian partners
will be put on hold until after marriage. And, when a romance proceeds
in proper time to the bedroom, the woman is expected to be submissive;
and in Chinese tradition, women might not even kiss their man. For a Sugar
Baby, the waiting game may be a welcome change from Western men who
expect sex upfront; it may also be torture to wait. When the act of making
love is over, Asian women typically let their man nap and, in the meantime,
clean up and prepare a man’s clothing for when he wakes up. For Sugar Babies
that are used to getting spoiled, this is a new expectation, but it might
be a welcome change to wait on an admired man.